The majority of message boards here are for those who suffer from BPD. There are three boards that are open for those who do not suffer from BPD ("nons"); the open forum, the DBT forum, and the general discussion forum for clinicians.
If you do not have BPD, please restrict your posts to the appropriate forums. This includes responding to the posts of others. Should someone without BPD read something in another forum and wish to give input, it can be done via the Open Forum.
On the first page of BPD community the boards are listed and identified as for consumers only. Consumers, in this sense, are those with BPD. I realize that many do not access the message boards via the BPD Community page and so that particular posting restriction is easy to miss.
Thank you for your cooperation.
Sincerely,
El
If you do not have BPD, please restrict your posts to the appropriate forums. This includes responding to the posts of others. Should someone without BPD read something in another forum and wish to give input, it can be done via the Open Forum.
On the first page of BPD community the boards are listed and identified as for consumers only. Consumers, in this sense, are those with BPD. I realize that many do not access the message boards via the BPD Community page and so that particular posting restriction is easy to miss.
Thank you for your cooperation.
Sincerely,
El
oops, I guess I jumped the gun on this one. 
I like Wisdom's feedback and replies so I would be disappointed to "put her in a corner" where I'm less likely to read her postings and get her thoughts that can be helpful at least to me. 
Now for my point, we had to do a simulation and write it up so I chose HI (hearing impairments) and put silly putty in my ears. My friend rented a wheelchair and we spent a couple hours in a mall observing other's reactions. I've mentioned that I have comorbidity (fancy word for multiple disabilities-SLD specific Learning Disability/ADD 
you know that one I'm sure/Depression/BPD) so I wrote my paper with comparisons of that day's reactions with past experiences to my SLD/ADD-undiagnosed BPD at that time, as well as incorporating discussions with a couple deaf friends of mine. 
The teacher marked me down for comparing because she only wanted people's reactions to that disability despite trying to take my learning to a higher level; thus challenging myself as I had previous experiences and work with SLD/ADD/HI 
I went to my University advisor who conveniently was head of the educ dept, showed her the paper, the marks and comments. 
She agreed with me completely and said "when you get your PhD maybe even just a Masters degree in Special Educ, come back and see me for a job because you'll do a damn site better than her"
"I'll talk to her but remind me why we had you take this course" cos it was required.
So It seems like banning Wisdom is like denying her comparison of disabilities and to use my fav quote "to see through the differences to the similarities" by Julian Steward anthropologist for Cultural Ecology. 
my votes with keeping Wisdom and why does she have to go through this again?
good to know! now that i know i'm completely in the clear here- i give a big 
to everyone- thnx again for accepting me into your little family 