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I Hate You, Don't Leave Me, is the title of the book.........I have read it.....it was a good one, although the newer one Sometimes I Act Crazy elaborates much more on the recovery process....because borderlines can and do get better....(I Hate You, Don't Leave Me was written before they even knew much about the ways to recover from the condition.)

I certainly relate - I have bipolar and BPD of course (along with a couple other things), and my husband is also bipolar with mood swings up and down and all over the place at times....Instead of adapting to each other's moods like I've found I've been able to do with close friends of mine with mood disorders, I seem to just feed off of my husband's bad moods.....and he feeds off of mine. Incredibly stressful, yes......We also are wonderful, as long as we're not fighting, because fighting is what triggers my rages, my sudden deep depressions, impulsive behaviors, etc. I am glad you found us here, this board is wonderful.....there are a lot of places on this forum in which relationships have been discussed many times...seeing as how relationships are a very big issue in all our (borderline) lives....So take a look around, see if you can find anything that's helpful to you, read up online on BPD and relationships, or better yet - read one of those books that we have suggested! Hope to hear from you more, hugs!