Hello,
I've been in a relationship with my BPDso for almost 4 years. I've endured countless silent rages that range from 2 days to 12 days. The last 8 months or so when the silent treatment starts and I don't hear from my BPDso for a few days, they usually come back and explain what was going on for them at that time.
This current silent treatment has been going on for 14 days. From what I can put together, my BPDso is going thru a TREMENDOUS amount of stress; they are dealing with a son who suffered a serious injury resulting in brain injury and loss of sight, money, or lack of because of their profession, money is not steady unless they go to work. Finding care for the ill son is costly and at present time, or at least the last time we spoke, he was in a state of anger. He's been really acting out and I know the stress was building. What makes matters worse is , this is the first time she's been in a lesbian relationship and her ill son is against the relationship and when he's in his state of anger, he speaks mean and evil things to her....and me when I was given the chance to hang out with him. When the son was in a different mood, me being there wasn't an issue. I don't know, I know I'm rambling on, but I don't know what to think. I want to be there for her, but with no contact for 14 days now, I wonder if its the LAST.....
I've been in a relationship with my BPDso for almost 4 years. I've endured countless silent rages that range from 2 days to 12 days. The last 8 months or so when the silent treatment starts and I don't hear from my BPDso for a few days, they usually come back and explain what was going on for them at that time.
This current silent treatment has been going on for 14 days. From what I can put together, my BPDso is going thru a TREMENDOUS amount of stress; they are dealing with a son who suffered a serious injury resulting in brain injury and loss of sight, money, or lack of because of their profession, money is not steady unless they go to work. Finding care for the ill son is costly and at present time, or at least the last time we spoke, he was in a state of anger. He's been really acting out and I know the stress was building. What makes matters worse is , this is the first time she's been in a lesbian relationship and her ill son is against the relationship and when he's in his state of anger, he speaks mean and evil things to her....and me when I was given the chance to hang out with him. When the son was in a different mood, me being there wasn't an issue. I don't know, I know I'm rambling on, but I don't know what to think. I want to be there for her, but with no contact for 14 days now, I wonder if its the LAST.....
