Recognizing Borderline Personality Disorder in Children

feeds@yuku.com (TiredofThisGame) — Thu, 10 Dec 2009 14:39:01 GMT

Christmas Carols For The Disturbed

feeds@yuku.com (TiredofThisGame) — Thu, 10 Dec 2009 12:43:41 GMT

Christmas Carols For The Disturbed

* 1. Schizophrenia --- Do You Hear What I Hear?

* 2. Multiple Personality Disorder --- We Three Kings Disoriented Are

* 3. Dementia --- I Think I'll be Home for Christmas

* 4. Narcissistic --- Hark the Herald Angels Sing About Me

* 5. Manic - Deck the Halls and Walls and House and Lawn and Streets and Stores and Office and Town and Cars...

BPD Job Tips

feeds@yuku.com (DN) — Wed, 09 Dec 2009 01:36:06 GMT

I'm starting a new job this week at the auto body shop my husband works with. The longest I've kept a job before is a year, and usually 6 months or under. He really wanted me to work here, and tomorrow is the 3rd day of training, so far so good. There is no way I'm going to be/feel incompetent at this job, I've had a career in the past and know I can handle it.. But I really think I need tips on not dissociating with people there, since I know that about 2 months in I'll...

questions about pregnancy

feeds@yuku.com (blue eyed teddy bear) — Tue, 08 Dec 2009 23:20:40 GMT

Kayla's baby is due May 26. This will be my first grandchild. I hope everything will be ok with it. She didn't know she was pregnant until she was six weeks along. She had been using various drugs before she knew, including heroin as I suspected. She quit cold turkey, on her own, when she found out she was pregnant and went through five days of withdrawal. I am proud of her for making a healthy choice for her and her baby, but I am concerned about what effects it may have had on the...

Five childhood indicators of BPD

feeds@yuku.com (TiredofThisGame) — Tue, 08 Dec 2009 09:17:09 GMT

Five childhood indicators of BPD - Nicki Crick - Institute of Child Development - University of Minnesota

Hostile, paranoid world view
This may result from a failure to develop the ability to accurately identify and interpret the behaviors and intentions of others. For example, a number of studies have shown that some children have a tendency to attribute hostile intent to others when none is actually implied and these hostile attributions have been shown to be...

Theory: The Earlier in Life the Trauma - The More Complex

feeds@yuku.com (TiredofThisGame) — Tue, 08 Dec 2009 08:07:18 GMT

Because the disconnects happen as the fetus is developing and then repeated throughout the form-ative years of 0-3 where object relation is consequently thwarted and distorted - it would seem that these are the most difficult cases to heal.

The closer you get to *touching* those places of acute pain, the more defences are then piled on in self protection.

The more defenses, the more symptoms, the more symptoms, the more complications and derailing of the healing.
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My Evil Borderline Girlfriend?

feeds@yuku.com (loveisthecure5) — Mon, 07 Dec 2009 11:31:13 GMT

Hey guys. I found and wrote a blog post about an article that makes borderlines look like vampires in relationships. This kind of information just furthers the stigma. What do you think?

http://spliit.wordpress.com/2009/12/04/my-evil-borderline-girlfriend/

I think I have BPD or else I'm just a terrible person

feeds@yuku.com (amylh) — Sun, 06 Dec 2009 03:24:11 GMT

I have dealt with anxiety and depression issues since I was a teenager. Only recently have I begun to suspect that there was something else going on. I'm newly single after 6 years in a commited but extremely dysfunctional relationship. The initial shock of being alone was more than I could bear. I immediately began dating just to distract myself from my loneliness. Looking at my behavior in the past few months is what lead me to suspect BPD. I have no problem meeting men. My problem is...

Have You Ever Felt Loved?

feeds@yuku.com (TiredofThisGame) — Thu, 03 Dec 2009 18:38:18 GMT

This may be a weird question, but I was thinking about it today - whether I ever felt - I mean FELT - loved. For me - it is a maybe. A few instances here and there. Just brief brief moments in time with a baby or with an animal. Never with a man. Never with a parent.

What about you? Have you ever felt loved?

psychotherapy is hard for you?

feeds@yuku.com (Faceless) — Wed, 02 Dec 2009 17:29:14 GMT

For me - hard like a hell.Im always like dunno what to tell to my therapist and when he answers me always want to do something faster then im

is the chat room broken for everyone else?

feeds@yuku.com (XGoonieGirlX) — Sun, 29 Nov 2009 14:18:34 GMT

I try to log in but it won't let me
is anyone else having this problem?

Complete Recovery Treatment - (maybe interesting?)

feeds@yuku.com (TiredofThisGame) — Sun, 29 Nov 2009 13:01:12 GMT

Innovative therapy that offers new hope

Patients coping with the chaos and misery of Borderline Personality Disorder now have reason for strong confidence in making major life changes through a new treatment, Schema Therapy. For the first time, three major outcome studies have shown that many patients with Borderline Personality Disorder can achieve full recovery across the complete range of symptoms. In one study Schema Therapy was shown to be more than twice as...

Hey everyone brief update.....

feeds@yuku.com (Qelyn) — Mon, 23 Nov 2009 13:43:02 GMT

I am sorry I have not been active lately life has just had me busy and active..... And the truth is I am doing so well that I have found myself drifting from the site..... I am not home all morning anymore since starting the gym so I have less time in my life to keep up here..... Plus I am generally gone all day because I meet hubby for lunch after the gym..... My arms are looking more toned and I am losing some of my belly....

I literally have not had any problems with the BPD...

Hi Everyone

feeds@yuku.com (XGoonieGirlX) — Mon, 23 Nov 2009 04:37:47 GMT

I haven't been here in a while i was in a bad way but now I feel better and feel I can try to be
some kind of help, or at least give my humble opinion. Hi everyone I'm glad to be back.

a little info on me
my name is mo
I just turned 33
i like to read
I'm married
just the 2 kids
2 dogs
one cat

Going Ballistic

feeds@yuku.com (TiredofThisGame) — Sun, 22 Nov 2009 11:03:27 GMT

Hi - just introducing myself . Went ballistic today. I do this every few years when I feel threatened. Crazy. Other than that I surf under the radar and don't make waves. Stay out of trouble. So tired - don't sleep well at night - have a lot on my mind. Just testing this forum - see how it goes from here.

Are there arny good chatrooms for bpd, to enable me to chat in realtime and talk through my problems when I'm in distress???

feeds@yuku.com (Britgirl) — Mon, 16 Nov 2009 14:47:27 GMT

Thanks all.

M xxx

BPD and sexual orientation?

feeds@yuku.com (loveisthecure5) — Sun, 15 Nov 2009 19:33:55 GMT

Scholarly research has shown a link between BPD and homosexuality/bisexuality..which may be a complication of identity disturbance. Some say they are straight while sleeping the same sex. I'm bisexual leaning towards homosexual and I have BPD...I have noticed a pattern with people too. Anyone have anything to add?

Write Love On Her Arms Day

feeds@yuku.com (scrip50) — Thu, 12 Nov 2009 04:07:52 GMT

Friday 13th of November is Write Love On Her Arms Day. Google it and participate. It costs nothing and shows compassion and offers hope. Last year over 4 million people participated.

thank you Qelyn

feeds@yuku.com (Rylee) — Wed, 11 Nov 2009 15:17:26 GMT

I want to thank you Qelyn for what you said to Joshe. I have printed it out so that I can read it again and again.
I have been feeling miserable for weeks about something or other that I could not or would not name. One reason that I couldn't talk about it was because I suspected that I was mainly feeling sorry for myself. (of course that felt shameful.) And I wanted attention so-o-o-o baaaad. I cut myself a little, I cried a little, I babbled about what a terrible person I am...

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